女人要懂得给自己定位 (A Woman shall Know How to Position Herself)

女人们都梦想着能有一个大舞台，都渴望着去发现和拥有这个世界上的美好事物，可是在实现自己梦想的时候，每个人都要对自己有一个清醒的认识，你是谁，你适合扮演什么样的角色，你具有何种天赋和优势，你最需要什么，你又是如何看待自己的？对于一个女人而言，了解自己，才能更好地完善自己，了解自己，才能决定你该如何去做，决定你如何去更好地融入社会、认识社会。没有定位的人生就如大海中没有航向的帆船，最终会迷失自我。对现实认识不清，生活在自己想象的世界中，以为生活会按照自己设想的轨道前行，生活就会给你当头一棒。你会发现，梦想越完美，现实就越残忍；当初的理想越高，如今就摔得越惨。懂得给人生定位，认清自我，用一颗平常的心去聆听自我价值的呼唤；懂得给人生定位，肯定自我，用一颗不屈的心擎起千斤重的理想；懂得给人生定位，才不至于迷失自我，才不至于误入歧途。 ( Women dream of a huge stage and long for discovery and possession of beautiful things in the world; however, when they realize dreams, everyone shall have a clear understanding who you are, what kind of role is suitable for you, what kind of talents and advantages you have, what you need the most, how you look at yourself; for a woman, if you can understand yourself, you can better perfect and understand yourself so as to decide how to do it, how to better integrate into the society and understand the society. A life without social status is life a sail without direction in the vast sea, finally you will lose yourself. If you can not clearly see the society and live in your imaginary world, thinking that the life will proceed as per your idea, the life will give you a head-on blow. You will eventually figure out that the more perfect your dream is, the more crucial the reality is; the greater the idea was, the severer failure you will face. You shall understand the life positioning and understand yourself to listen the call of personal value with normal mind; understand life positioning and recognize yourself to support your idea with unyielding heart; understand the life positioning so as to avoid losing yourself and walking in the wrong direction. )